IF YOU DISLIKE BLACK…

If you Dislike BLACK…

If you dislike BLACK, you may fear being emotionally restricted, misunderstood, or trapped. In relationships, this often means you resist conformity or commitment if it feels like it threatens your freedom. You may have experienced control, emotional manipulation or coldness in past partnerships, causing you to now crave openness, colour and emotional aliveness.

Black also represents the void, the unknown, and sometimes grief. If you find yourself uncomfortable around black, there may be an unprocessed pain, loss or fear of emotional heaviness that you’d rather avoid. You might long for love, but hesitate to go deep, worried that if you do, you’ll get stuck in something painful or lose yourself.

Avoiding black may also signal a deep yearning to express yourself fully, vibrantly and without restraint. You want to be seen, heard and felt - not hidden.

To begin healing, work with contrast. Bring more light into the “dark” areas of your heart. Ask yourself: What am I afraid of in intimacy? What am I protecting? Can I hold both freedom and depth in a relationship?

Try lighting a black candle during meditation and visualizing emotional pain being gently released into the flame. Or wear black intentionally one day - not to hide, but to honour your resilience, strength and mystery.

Freedom in love isn’t found in avoiding depth. It’s found in embracing it with someone who meets you there.